Gah! I bloody knew it!

[vegemite]

Originally posted by Dryzabone:
Well I guess there isn't a healthy balance after all, how ironic the sun stopped shining at this moment too.

I can't do this anymore.

Take care everyone.

<font size="3" face="Tempus sans ITC, Papyrus,Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">I'm sorry, to me it seems my comment has prompted someone to delete their account? Someone tell me otherwise if that is not the case? I never said nor implied there wasnt a healthy balance, I simply stated I thought this thread had gone too far. So much for the previous comment of being able to respect each other even when we dont agree. I'm sorry you've deleted your account, but I am not sorry for voicing my opinion. I hope you make your way back here again, Barb.

[Ivana]

Originally posted by sunhawk:
Holy stars, am i the only one who is really confused? [img]eek.gif[/img]

<font size="3" face="Tempus sans ITC, Papyrus,Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">No, you're not [img]confused.gif[/img]

[BBD]

In reply to the posts which have been added since last night I would like to sincerely apologise for anything I have said which may have offended other members of this board.

Yes I admit I may have gone slightly too far by singling out one person and I was probably uneccesarily bitchy, but I still stand by my thoughts on the post in question and I'm sorry if some people find that offensive but I can't help the way I feel about things.

Again I'm sorry if I've upset anyone but I can't apologise for my perception on things. I'm not saying that there is a right or wrong way to do things and that people who disgree with me are wrong, I've just tried to express an opinion.

[Juliet10]

I object most strongly to Laurie's assertion that this board has become a place where we are cruel about people.

Having said that though, I didn't see anything that would warrant Barb leaving either, but maybe I should lock this thread now?

Michelle

xx

[sunhawk]

Holy stars, am i the only one who is really confused? [img]eek.gif[/img]

Come back Barb! Don't let one thread get you down! *huggles*

[BBD]

Originally posted by Juliet10:
maybe I should lock this thread now?

Michelle

xx

<font size="3" face="Tempus sans ITC, Papyrus,Verdana, Helvetica, sans-serif">Well I've nothing more to say on the matter. Had my view, shared it... finished

[img]smile.gif[/img]

[Twizzle]

5 things:

1. WTF has happened here?

2. Why have you deleted your account, Barb?

3. Laurie, you're so wrong.

4. I'm not apologising for anything that I've said in this thread. It's about time that somebody told it like it is. DH's fanbase is now so rampant with power hungry ppl and those who are just out for what they can get. If other's can't (or won't) see that, then they're ostriches.

5. I've come to the decision that being a fan of DH is a very unhealthy thing to be. It makes ppl act differently and it makes ppl miserable so I'm not going to buy into it anymore. Also, it seems to have ruined a perfectly good board.

<font color="#9966FF" size="1">[ May 29, 2004 11:33 AM: Message edited by: Twizzle ]</font>

[Laurina]

You know... I am an extremely respectful person. I have always been the kind of person who respects others feelings and their rights to their feelings... even when I don't agree with them. Our feelings derive from different experiences, ever experience being unique to the individual person; and I completely understand that.

I respect everyone's frustrations and fears and angers and sadnesses; and if anyone here feels I don't do that... well... then that saddens me because I felt people knew me better than that [img]frown.gif[/img]

Because I don't agree with what is being said, does not deny you my respect as people and friends. But it feels, to me anyway, that because I don't agree with talking so down about specific people, means that I am denied respect for my feelings [img]frown.gif[/img]

So many people who post here and who read this board, have been publicly treated like shit in the past (and in some people's situations, some of you are still being treated that way) and I know it has hurt you... so why cast more stones? I am not protecting anyone, nor becoming anyone's "follower", because I do have a mind of my own and my own mind determines what I say and do. And that mind... because of my own personal experiences in the past... has a difficult time reading some of the things said on here. Again, I stress - I feel this way. These are my genuine feelings and they come from my experiences and they are valid... just as all of yours are.

I wished for understanding with my feelings... and well... it's sad that I don't feel that; especially when I strive so hard to never deny others their feelings.